perhaps you are overly eager to develop a relationship, making you seem too social, because you are desperate for one, where your belief in yourself as being too ugly for one has made you insecure. Beauty i(or lack of it) is very subjective, and more a genetic lottery than anything of any true value; focus on your other strengths when defining yourself, and try therapy for awhile to grow your confidence and self worth. Your relationships are more likely then to fall into place